Senior Minister Goh said that the children are too protected and that they never get to taste hardship until they grow older, which by then would be too late.
What is the solution then? Scouting, SM Goh said. “Scouting builds character and nurtures the young to be independent and resilient,” he added. Celebrating the scouts hundred anniversary, he shared an anecdote when he was a scout.
“I was lost for a whole day in Bukit Timah Nature Reserve when I took a hiking test for my First Class badge in the 1950s. Without a reference point, I and my hiking companion could not use the compass to plot our way out. So, we used the sun as a guide and headed west, but we went deeper into the forest. Night came, but were still stuck in the forest. Plus, it rained. Nobody was aware that we were lost. At that time, there was no cell phone. I thought of my mother. We then stumbled out of the forest after more than a day of pushing through the dense underbrush of its height. I failed my test,” he said.
However, he did not throw in the towel. Instead, he tried again and this time, he earned his badge.
How many teenagers dare to say that they never gave up , persevered and eventually succeeded? I guess not many. I must admit I also take the easy way out at times. Many adults call us the generation of the strawberries. All the suicide news of children taking their own lives when they failed the school examination made me wonder if we are really behaving like strawberries. This is something we should not be proud of. One of my favourite catch- phrases is “Get a life!” There are many things we can do, do charity, play football, catch a movie, visit your relatives, whatever it is, just do it! There is more to life than just playing computer games. To toughen up, you have to start somewhere. You can find a CCA which you can sweat it out under the sun, that is why I am in water polo and I am way better than those who still needs their parents to move their legs or kick the water for them.
So, to those teens who are still under their parents protective wings, give it a try and do without any help, for just a day, then a week and in no time, you will know if you dare to try, the sky is the limit. The next opportunity for you to learn to be more independent is the 2 day 1 night camp at St. John Island. Be there to enjoy the freedom!